What is the root of attraction? Stop and think for a moment about what is present in every situation in which a busty woman is attracted to a man. Still can’t figure it out? Intimidation and submissiveness. Not intimidation in the sense that a guy is trying to intimidate a chubby girl, but intimidation in the sense that the girl feels intimidated by a guy, whether it is because he is famous, rich, dominant, extremely good-looking etc. She feels nervous and like she needs to submit to him as if she is below him.
1. Intro
2. Online Daitng
Even if you look at indirect game, what is the point? The point of indirect game is to get a oversized girl to feel nervous around you and like she should give you what you want and do what you ask of her. If you look at why women are attracted to tall guys, is it necessarily because of a guy’s physical height? No. What it is is that women feel intimidated and like they need to submit to guys that are bigger than them, thus they feel attraction. Why are BBW turned off by a lot of tall guys? Because these tall guys display submissive behaviors, which I’ll get into a little later in this post.
3. BBW Dating
And think about BBW that like bad boys, abusers, and guys that can be controlling at times. They may say that they don’t like these guys, but they keep returning to the guys that have those types of behaviors. Why? Because these guys are intimidating and place women in a state of submissiveness. BBW can’t help but be attracted to these men, even if they don’t like who they are as people. Now you’re starting to understand how attraction works. If a woman feels intimidated by you, she will be submissive towards you, and with that intimidation and submissiveness comes attraction for you. When a girl approaches me, or falls for me quickly, it is usually because of the dominant behaviors that I express. When I’m not smiling, I look like a very intimidating guy, and plus size women will go out of their way to talk to me because they feel that sense of power. I know of at least three girls that admitted that they were intimidated by me and that they were dared by their friends to come and talk to me.
4. Chubby Singles
And this is why you should show no signs of submissiveness to a chubby girl. The instant that you show submissiveness, attraction will cease to exist. What this means is showing no emotion until she has earned it. It also means not giving in to any of her tests. And it means not collapsing when she makes an attempt to intimidate you herself. Some of you guys use direct game and wonder why it doesn’t work for you. Think about it for a moment. Are you smiling a lot? Is the girl taller than you? Do you look scrawny or like a weak bowl of jello? Do you feel like you have to have your friend standing next to you when you approach a girl? Do you try to impress her? Do you fumble with your speech? Do you collapse when she challenges you? Or do you let her get away with treating you like she is above you? These are all submissive behaviors that counter-act against the whole point of direct game: to be intimidating and let BBW know that you are a dominant man.
5. Plus Size Dating
If you are in a relationship, do you let your oversized girl run your life? Do you always do what she wants you to do? Do you let her humiliate you? Do you let her wiggle her way out of commitments? Are you always trying to make her happy? These are all submissive behaviors that will eventually lead to your chubby girl either cheating on you, or leaving you.
6 . COnclusion
Fact of the matter is that if a busty woman does not feel submissive towards you, she will not feel attraction for you. BBW can argue this point all that they want. They may not like it when a guy sees them as submissive, but it is what it is. In one way or another, if a girl is attracted to a guy, she is submissive towards him, and feels at least a little intimidated by him. And this is exactly why if you’re trying to attract a busty girl, and keep her attracted, you need to get her in a submissive role as soon as possible, and constantly remind her that she is not above you. Women will only feel attraction towards men that they are intimidated by.